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<rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><atom:link rel="hub" href="http://tumblr.superfeedr.com/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"/><description>[dʒo-ə-kɪm]</description><title>01101010 01101111 01100001 01101011 01101001 01101</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @bajen)</generator><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/</link><item><title>Hammarbyblommor!</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1n7lzl35x1qz6j7xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Hammarbyblommor!&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/20111903416</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/20111903416</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2012 12:53:59 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1l3m9MOum1qz6j7xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/20054827833</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/20054827833</guid><pubDate>Wed, 28 Mar 2012 09:32:33 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Just sent a postcard</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m02donBgXw1qz6j7xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Just sent a postcard&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/18386560502</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/18386560502</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Feb 2012 19:21:59 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lzpstoLM7C1qz6j7xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/17975232411</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/17975232411</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 00:20:11 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Just sent a postcard</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lyvgz4LMpW1qz6j7xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Just sent a postcard&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/17029328808</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/17029328808</guid><pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 15:16:16 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Koud Amsterdam.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lyo32dSDUR1qz6j7xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Koud Amsterdam.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/16818527428</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/16818527428</guid><pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 15:32:37 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Handball!</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ly2cfgo6d21qz6j7xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Handball!&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/16129294194</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/16129294194</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2012 21:47:40 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Om jag vore lite mer literärt begåvad hade jag kunnat skriva en...</title><description>&lt;iframe width="400" height="225" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/kpwd1YLgDaM?wmode=transparent&amp;autohide=1&amp;egm=0&amp;hd=1&amp;iv_load_policy=3&amp;modestbranding=1&amp;rel=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Om jag vore lite mer literärt begåvad hade jag kunnat skriva en helsida i DN Kultur om hur vacker den här videon är. Om hur fantastiska men samtidigt hur bräckliga vi människor är. Om hur man kan lära känna en person bara genom ögonkontakt i en kort stund. Om själen, om vad det är som för människor samman. Om kärleken.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Men även om hur vågad Kirsten Dunst är. Hur mycket mer naken hon är här än vilken tidningskanin som helst.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Men framför allt om hur vackert musik är.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/16030620978</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/16030620978</guid><pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2012 00:48:00 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>The house that Jack built.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lweh2c8g2h1qz6j7xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;The house that Jack built.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/14400466612</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/14400466612</guid><pubDate>Sun, 18 Dec 2011 13:51:48 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Leaving on a jet plane.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwcujilrUz1qz6j7xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Leaving on a jet plane.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/14356146423</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/14356146423</guid><pubDate>Sat, 17 Dec 2011 16:47:42 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lux6wq47AY1qz6j7xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/13020126985</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/13020126985</guid><pubDate>Sat, 19 Nov 2011 19:19:38 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Karl.</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;p class="p1"&gt;The old Karl would just think it&amp;#8217;s normal - and maybe it is. But Karl would only reason this way as a means to stop feeling sad or scared, or maybe a just little bit of both. He would use that as an excuse to hide it, tuck it underneath the carpet and forget about it. He would argue that he would not get stronger, nor wiser being sad. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="p1"&gt;Come new Karl, and he is no longer scared of it. He understands to not tuck it away or forget about it. Instead he lets the sadness come. But Karl is still unsure what being sad truly means. He probably still thinks being sad in it self isn&amp;#8217;t helpful. Still he needs to accept that emotion and confront what&amp;#8217;s making him said. He thinks being sad means to move forward. And that Karl knows he needs to do.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="p1"&gt;Old Karl would not even be close of arguing similarly. While he might have argued that he was not scared of actually exposing himself to a confrontation (he probably was but that emotion was never faced), the effects of doing so could mean that what he was so scared of losing, would be lost. The ironic twist is that what he was so scared of losing, could not be lost for it was already forsaken.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="p1"&gt;New Karl is faced with a dilemma. Other people might not reason this way, but Karl is not other people. While the understanding of allowing the emotions to come now is there for Karl, the fear of losing what might be lost, but which he could not bare losing, is still very present.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="p1"&gt;Even though our friends in this story deals with the situation differently, you could argue that the fear of losing something because of the way you feel, and not knowing whether you should or even are allowed to feel that way, is what unites old and new Karl together. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="p1"&gt;Old Karl never learned to face what was making him sad and therefore, new Karl has today created something of an emotional Catch 22. He is sad about being afraid of the possible consequences of talking about being sad with the person making him sad in the first place. And even though he understands the sadness is caused by his own insecurity, he still needs affirmation from said friend to move on.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="p1"&gt;New Karl might have taken quite a few steps forwards, but old Karl is still very present in new Karl.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/12667476020</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/12667476020</guid><pubDate>Sat, 12 Nov 2011 02:41:00 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Zuidas.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lujsjmby8c1qz6j7xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Zuidas.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/12684974965</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/12684974965</guid><pubDate>Fri, 11 Nov 2011 13:40:00 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lpbaifmS6S1qz6j7xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/8390212896</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/8390212896</guid><pubDate>Tue, 02 Aug 2011 19:42:14 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lp7zkmUkkF1qz6j7xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/8314594771</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/8314594771</guid><pubDate>Mon, 01 Aug 2011 00:53:10 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>"[Insert kind of pretentious looking and deep thought provoking lines of text from a song by a famous..."</title><description>“[Insert kind of pretentious looking and deep thought provoking lines of text from a song by a famous but still seen as obscure artist/band here]”</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/6987965185</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/6987965185</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2011 23:57:49 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Midsommarafton i Amsterdam.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lnbcadR7BF1qz6j7xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Midsommarafton i Amsterdam.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/6877938960</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/6877938960</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 23:13:26 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>I think this is a pretty funny photo to use on a tension...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lna86dSvot1qz6j7xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;I think this is a pretty funny photo to use on a tension relieving shower gel.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/6857820119</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/6857820119</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 08:47:01 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Holland.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lmzae663BL1qz6j7xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Holland.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/6650387278</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/6650387278</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 Jun 2011 11:01:19 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>This might just be the most summery picture ever.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lmo2rdUGGn1qz6j7xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;This might just be the most summery picture ever.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/6446984946</link><guid>http://tumblr.joakim.nl/post/6446984946</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 Jun 2011 09:42:00 +0200</pubDate></item></channel></rss>

